Different aspects of a child develop at different rates. When an important part lags behind, it can look like something is wrong or missing. There are various reasons why this may happen, including stress, illness, accident or separation that is experienced as traumatic by a very young child. Such events can "freeze" a body area, personality aspect, or subtle energy system, preventing integration of soul, mind and body. This can contribute to delays, autism, and other major challenges.
If subtle aspects of the child are out of alignment, the disharmony can be quite disruptive. A child's struggle to literally hold the self together energetically can appear to adults as ADHD, learning issues, acting out, aggression, willfulness, destructiveness, and other disturbing behaviours.
It's important also to consider environmental sensitivities that may be draining to vitality or disruptive to the child's etheric shield. Astrology can reveal susceptibilities to certain types of influences. Steps to avoid exposure to problematic foods, chemicals, or other environmental factors can help children heal. Flower essences repair, cleanse, balance and align the subtle energetic field, along with the mind, spirit, acupuncture meridians, and other aspects of whole being. They can heal causative factors such as trauma or shocks that are held in the energetic field.
The parent needs to remember that because this approach is within nature's realm, any behavioural change, good or bad, is a positive sign that the remedies are working. Flower and gem remedies can only increase wholeness, and do not cause harm.
Here are some essences for All types of Autism ,Aspergers Syndrome, ADHD, OCD, each child is different and you may have to try a few of these to find the right essence for your child, this page i hope will be able to help children and parents, as my own son has Aspergers Syndrome and unfortunately i was not aware of flower essences when he was younger and i know the pain he went through and how hard it was for him, but now he is 19 years old it is much easier to give a child essences than it is to try and get the adult to take them, i am proud of course to say my son Jamie is at university studying to become a biomedical scientist. here are some essences to try.
Shooting Star (FES Quintessentials flower essences )– for grounding, alienation and solitude. (According to the description of "Guide to Autism" published by Autism Society Japan, "the person with autism is like someone who is living in some foreign country without knowing the local language, and is constantly exposed to the sense of insecurity and stresses.")
Scarlet Monkeyflower (FES Quintessentials flower essences - relates to "frustration that you feel your intention is blocked, and many types of anger and issues of power that you feel when you are pushed into difficulties." That was exactly what Miss M had been experiencing since childhood. She beat other children because of the frustration she felt when she tried to communicate with them.
Indian Paintbrush (FES Quintessentials flower essences )- helps to integrate the body and the soul
the jarret remedy is a little boy who has Autism and this is the remedy which improved him significantly it is five drops of each essence and each essence is as follows.
Clematis is for for people who seem to be bored and empty headed their thought usually elsewhere, not much interest in daily life or have poor memory and probably need lot of sleep, they may look spaced out ..for those who bump into things and are forgetful ,for those who forever sit daydreaming living in a fantasy world instead of this one, for children who spend most time gazing out of school window ..very good for woman before they start their periods, and of course those who have great ideas but never start them..people who get bored easily.for the daydreamer finds it hard to come back down to earth
impatiens is great for infants who get frustrated and cant express themselves as they would like to great for temper tantrums also, its for people who get impatient with slower people like a person doesn't like to be hindered in his work by others who cannot keep up at his pace, they prefer to work on their own, they are hot tempered and can go off very easy, but its short lived fly off the hadle then calm the next moment,( i think we all know few people like this) they may drum their fingers on the table as very impatient rushing around all the time.
Madia,(FES Quintessentials flower essences )
Precise thinking, disciplined focus and concentration Patterns of Imbalance: Becoming easily distracted, inability to concentrate, dull or listless
Violet ,(FES Quintessentials flower essences )
highly perceptive sensitivity, elevated spiritual perspective; sharing with others while remaining true to oneself Patterns of imbalance: Profound shyness, reserve, aloofness, fear of being submerged in groups
Snapdragon ,(FES Quintessentials flower essences )
Lively, dynamic energy; healthy libido; verbal communication which is emotionally balanced Patterns of imbalance: Verbal aggression and hostility; repressed or misdirected libido; tension around jaw
was used for her tendency to bite. This flower essence was applied topically to her jaw, and also administered internally, resulting in a marked change in her biting behavior
Healthy, vital sense of Self; healing and beneficent forces arising from within oneself, deep sense of wellness and wholeness Patterns of imbalance: Inability to take inner responsibility for your healing, lacking in spiritual motivation for wellness, overly dependent on external help
Love for the Earth and for human life, enthusiasm for doing and serving Patterns of Imbalance: Apathy or resignation, inability to catalyse will forces through the heart
mimulus is for all known fears, like spiders the dark, heights, any fear that is known like agoraphobia ,or kids that are afraid of joining in with others or fear of talking in public, mimulus can cover both fear types the known fears and the unknown fears which is usually treated with aspen, mimulus is good for panic attacks or anxiety attacks,
chicory is for those who love their loved ones but do it in a selfish way and possessive way, in a obtrusive way, by trying to keep that person close to hand and controlling them, they get very hurt if you try and snub them for whatever reason and may try emotional blackmail to get their own way, some mothers who wont let their child grow up and let them get on with their lives ,ever heard anyone saying i never thought of my self i did it all for him and this is the thanks i get.
walnut essence is for letting go of things and getting on with the new, for those who are resisting change and need to break from past influences, anything from puberty menopause, or marriage or divorce, moving into new home or new job ,walnut will help the person feel settled if they cant get used to a move ,or starting a new school.
Illumined consciousness, light-filled awareness and strength Patterns of imbalance: Overly expanded state leading to psychic and physical vulnerability; deep fears, disturbed dreams
Maternal consciousness, warm, feminine and nurturing; mother-child bonding, healing of the inner child Patterns of Imbalance: Alienated from mother or from mothering, feelings of childhood abandonment or abuse
Childlike innocence and trust; feeling at home in the world, at ease with oneself, supported and loved; connected with the spiritual world Patterns of imbalance: Defensiveness, insecurity, mistrust of others; estrangement from the spiritual world; lack of support from the father in childhood feeling supported and loved, especially by male figures; faith in the providence of spiritual beings
Inner radiance and strength of aura, compassionate awareness, inclusive sensitivity, beneficent healing forces Patterns of imbalance: Extreme vulnerability to others and to the environment; easily depleted, overly absorbent of negative influences, psychic toxicity
Humanised spirituality, cosmic consciousness warmed with caring for all that is human and earthly Patterns of imbalance: Profound feeling of alienation, especially not feeling at home on Earth, nor a part of the human family
Embodiment, integration of spiritual Self with the physical world Patterns of Imbalance: Estranged from the earthly world; aversion, disgust or revulsion toward the bodily Self and physical world
Awareness and healing of painful early emotions absorbed from the mother; ability to open emotionally and form deep, committed relationships Patterns of imbalance: Feeling rejected, unwanted; avoidance of commitment in relationships, fear of parenthood; sexual and emotional repression.